For when you’re at your wits end – Discussion – Alzheimer’s Foundation of America Support Community – Inspire

17 Jul

For when you’re at your wits end

and just can’t take anymore of the repeating, repeating, repeating…the pacing, pacing, pacing…the crying, crying crying…the incontinence…the trying to get out the doors…the wanting to “go home”…the not knowing who you are…the not wanting to take the medications…the not wanting to go to bed…the false accusations…the frustrations…the anger…along with all the other negative/aggravating things they have no control over, I believe I have a solution. 🙂

NONE of us are perfect, but…we, the so called “normal” ones, CAN control our reactions to those negatives, they CAN’T control.

When you find yourself at your wits end to each of those negatives..get inside yourself and find one thing you don’t LIKE about yourSELF & try to change it, to the point of STOPPING it. How hard can THAT be?! Pretty darned hard!!!! With our “normal” minds, we should be able to control those negatives in ourselves…right? 🙂

After you’ve gotten inside yourself and found that very FIRST thing you don’t like about yourself & can’t seem to stop doing…take a good look back at the one that absolutely HAS no control over their actions and words. How hard is it for THEM to change and stop those negatives? It’s impossible.

They may WANT to stop them, but…just like us with the “normal” mind who would want for our own negatives to be stoppable…they don’t stand a GHOST of a chance at stopping them, while we DO stand a GREAT chance at stopping our own.

Give it some thought, the next time you feel you ARE at your wits end… It just may save the day.

(HUGS) to all the caregivers & their loved ones!

Hug ’em while ya got ’em & keep the faith!

 

For when you’re at your wits end – Discussion – Alzheimer’s Foundation of America Support Community – Inspire.

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